What does dating mean to you? It depends on your generation. “Going out” to a middle school girl means that you and a boy like each other even though you really aren’t going anywhere. “Going out” to a high school girl means that you get into his car and actually go somewhere without a parent driving. By the time you are a young adult, “going out” can mean anything from casual dating in the new “friends with benefits” all the … Continue reading →
Ah, love. You’re in love – at least you think you are. She makes your heart race, and you think about her all the time. Slow down there, tiger – you might scare her away! There’s no need to play games, but there’s no need to be in a big rush either. Rushing has a way of dooming a relationship for nice guys, so just take a few deep breaths. When you enter the dating scene, you may be looking … Continue reading →
When you have been talking to someone online for a while you both may decide to take the next step with a real life date. Online dating can be very beneficial but without a good connection in real life, you cannot move onto something more with long lasting potential. Some people are concerned about moving from online dating to dating in real life. They fear it can be very dangerous. Online daters also need to worry about the other person … Continue reading →
Not only does a woman’s body language speak louder than her words, but so does yours. It’s okay if you’re (by nature) the kind of guy who’s shy. But, unfortunately, that doesn’t translate well in the dating scene. Those shy, quiet guys who never know what to say or how to act only end up with the women they want in the movies. It’s not like that in real life. In real life, it’s the guy who has confidence in … Continue reading →
Lots of people run short of fun date ideas on the eve of their date. A survey reveals that almost 87% of people fall short of ideas before their date. The old tried and true ideas can get a little stale: go to the park, the movie, the beach, a night at the lakeside, a resort, a hiking trip or a scavenger hunt. All these ideas are probably years old. No doubt that they are good ones, but if you … Continue reading →
Too many men end up discouraged when it comes to women because they fail to pay attention to the clues. They meet a woman’s eye across a crowded room, walk over and introduce themselves – only to have her give a polite excuse and then leave. Pay attention to the nonverbal messages that women send. When a woman is interested, there will be signs. Some of them will be subtler than other signs. You might notice her looking at you … Continue reading →
Some men think that dating today is like try to swim across an alligator infested lake. They might make it – and then again, they might not. Of course, there are always those men who make it look super easy. All they have to do is exchange a few words with the woman they’re interested in and the next thing you know, that guy’s social calendar is booked solid. Too many men hesitate to put themselves out there for two … Continue reading →
You’re thinking, “If I don’t ask for a date, how am I going to get one?” It’s not that you shouldn’t ask for a date, it’s that you should consider other ways of getting a date than just walking up to her and saying, “Would you like to go out on a date with me?” You don’t have to use that old school technique anymore. Besides, she may not think of you as a potential date right off the bat, … Continue reading →
One of the advantages you have as a nice guy is that you take a sincere interest in the women you date (right?). Most nice guys spend more time planning to make a date nice, and taking the time to find out what this woman is all about. Many bad boys and arrogant men (the kind that women eventually learn to really dislike a lot) rely on the same stale routines for all of their dates. They go to the … Continue reading →
When a man offers you a genuine compliment and you blow it off, you’re saying something very unattractive about yourself. It’s not humble to refuse a compliment – it’s actually a sign of insecurity and poor self-esteem. If he compliments the way you looking, saying, “You have the most beautiful eyes I’ve ever seen” and you scoff at him, it will make him feel uncomfortable – as if he’s being a liar. Can you imagine receiving a beautiful gift that … Continue reading →
If you’re confused about what men want in a relationship, you’re not alone. The battle of the sexes truly is a battle where one half often doesn’t understand what the other half wants or needs. So as a result of this, you find too many people who are alone, but together in a relationship. You’ll also find people not in a relationship, but who want to be in one, yet when they get it, they just can’t seem to make … Continue reading →
You’ve met the woman of your dreams – you think. You’ve been dating for some time and things are getting pretty serious. You’re at the point where you’re becoming exclusive (or maybe you’re thinking about making things even a bit more permanent). Before you ask her to marry you, you have to ask yourself, “Does this woman deserve my heart?” Answer it completely honestly. Remember, it isn’t only her judging whether you are worthy, but you deciding whether she is … Continue reading →
Do you ever wonder if there are any guys out there who are worth dating? Where are they? And why can’t you find them? Yes, they’re out there – but maybe you’re looking in the wrong places. You might even know a great guy right now, but you’re passing him by because you aren’t sure what you really want. Chances are you’re letting yourself look for men the way you shop for shoes – changing your mind with each new … Continue reading →
You can tell she’s interested in you. You feel – or at least look – relaxed and confident. You walk up to her, say hello, and – then what? If she’s very interested in you, it won’t really matter what you say. You could tell her she looks like she’s been hit with a pretty stick or ask her if it hurt when she fell out of heaven, and she’ll think it’s cute. But, if she’s still debating whether or … Continue reading →
We all have been in a situation where we look back and say we should’ve known our ex was an abuser, a cheater, or a jerk. Its easy to do in hindsight. I know because I’ve done it at least 18 times. Its OK to justify that a red flag is more pink than red sometimes, but be honest with yourself and know the difference between the two. Here are five red flags that shouldn’t be justified. Rough housing. He’s … Continue reading →
