The 2 four letter words I want to talk about today is love and lust. Contrary to what most christian singles believe, the opposite of Love is not Hate but Lust. The majority of the problems I see in most christian singles dating is contributed by lust, our idea of what love is has been given a makeover by the world, we are taught to yield to our flesh. We are told to blame it on our hormones and on the media but I personally think the main culprit is lack of understanding of what love is, the way our Creator intended Love to be. You might understand this truth but is the truth living in your relationship. Or is it a one sided affair a result of dating someone of a different spiritual maturity.

So how does one know what what we are experiencing is love but not lust. more…