It’s hard enough to have a fun and enjoyable date with someone nice and decent. It’s twice as hard to go on a date with someone who’s not only nice and decent but whom you share a common faith with.
The thing is, you rarely find someone whom you might like in your church or prayer community. That is how Christian dating services come to exist.
There are many reasons why people join these sites. While most people seek to develop a serious romantic relationship with others, there are some who join these sites to find a prayer partner or to develop fun friendships with people whom they share common beliefs and interests with. Whatever your reason is, the good thing of meeting someone through these websites is Christ’s presence in your relationship. As your relationship grows, so does your faith in God. That, alone, is reason enough to join these websites.
The process is simple. You register by filling out a form, upload a picture, and write a profile. Once you’ve completed registration, you may then see their catalog or database. Here you are able to see members. You can make particular searches by age or area, depending on your preference. You can then send messages to people whom you might want to meet or pursue. If they respond, then it can be the beginning of something.
There are basically two types of these sites – free and commercial. Free sites do not ask their members for any charge. That might attract more people not really serious and those wanting to defraud you. As for the commercial sites, they may or may not allow free trials for a short period. The prices of these sites differ as well.
These are some other things that you should consider in choosing a website. First, make sure that it is private and safe. Avoid sites which ask you to post your real name, address, work information or other personal information for other people to access. There are also some sites which personally pre-screen their members. This gives an assurance that a real person is on the other side and not a mere “ghost” or con man.
What other services do these sites provide? Aside from matchmaking services, they may also post relevant information such as safety dating tips and general dating advice. They remind you to be careful in giving out personal information, to get to know the other person more before agreeing to meet personally, to choose a public place in case you decide to meet. Who knows, the other person might turn out to be a serial killer or stalker.
Some sites also have forums or chat rooms where members can interact. This is also another chance to find interesting people, as you are able to converse and exchange views with them. They may also include other features such as bible commentary and testimonials from members.
Christian dating services are the “in” thing nowadays.
While nothing beats the traditional way of approaching someone and asking for her or his number, in today’s fast-paced world, the internet is also another way to meet and get to know people. As long as you are open to new ideas, these dating services can actually work for you. So why don’t you give these sites a try. Browse through them and see if they work for you.