Did you know that having more fun actually makes you a more fun person? Don’t get so caught up in wanting a girlfriend that you forget to do the things you enjoy. Keeping up with your interests and hobbies, and creating new ones, is a great way to relax, stay happy, and become a more interesting, fun person.
Interesting, fun people are also confident, attractive people who have lots to talk about on their dates. Don’t worry that your hobby isn’t one that women usually enjoy. There are women out there who love fantasy football, some who are obsessed with gaming, and some who are expert mechanics.
If those women don’t happen to live near you, there are other women who may not enjoy actually doing the same things you do, but they can appreciate something about your interests and encourage you to pursue them.
A woman might have no interest at all in muscle cars, but your project car might remind her of her dad’s motorcycle. She might think that a guy who doesn’t spend Thanksgiving watching football isn’t normal.
Or, she might have always wanted to learn something about your hobby but was too shy to ask anyone to teach her. If you have serious doubts about whether a woman will understand your interests, you can always try new ones.
If you’ve always wanted to try something, now is a good time to try it. Skydiving? Rock climbing? Volunteer work? As long as you get out of your routine and have fun, it doesn’t really matter.
Going to new places and doing new things also increase your chances of meeting new people. One reason you may not have tried new things before may be that you never had the money to do it.
This is another reason it’s important to have your finances in order. You don’t need to go bankrupt to finance new interests. A smarter plan is to save money to do the things you want to do. If you have the money, go ahead. If you don’t, make a plan to save the money until you do have enough.
When you meet a woman after your new experiences, be careful not to brag. Enthusiasm is attractive – bragging isn’t. You can talk about how exciting it was, how much you learned, and what else you’d like to do, but don’t start going on about how rich you are, how brave you are, how much pain you can stand or you’ll sound self-absorbed and she’ll move on without a second thought.
On the other hand, if you do the things you enjoy, discover new interests, and talk enthusiastically about accomplishing your goals, women will see you as an enthusiastic, interesting, motivated person with fascinating stories to tell, whether she shares your interests or not.