Not only does a woman's body language speak louder than her words, but so does yours. It's okay if you're (by nature) the kind of guy who's shy. But, unfortunately, that doesn't translate well in the dating scene.
Too many men end up discouraged when it comes to women because they fail to pay attention to the clues. They meet a woman's eye across a crowded room, walk over and introduce themselves – only to have her give a polite excuse and then leave.
If you think it’s tough sitting on the sidelines with your girlfriends waiting for a guy to talk to you, then you aren’t looking at the guy’s situation. He has to walk over and make contact with you while you’re surrounded by your girlfriends.
Dating is a two way affair and a woman has to be able to do her bit to make a date a success. If a date is to lead on to other things, a woman has to put in even more effort than a man, although in less obvious ways and here are a few dating tips for women to enable you to help a date go the way you want it to. Never let your past experiences affect what is happening at present – everyone comes with baggage but if it affects your attitude you can take if for granted that the date will not be a happy one. Perhaps you do not let the past affect your mood but you do talk about your exes in disparaging terms – no man wants to her that men are rotten human beings and the one you are with may begin to wonder if he will be next on your list.
When it’s time to strike up a conversation with a woman, some guys (maybe you), get shy and tongue-tied, only to end up frustrated and angry at themselves for not knowing what to say or how to say it.
What Is Body Language?
Body language refers to communicating our feelings and thoughts to others with gestures, posture, facial expressions, and tone of voice. In fact, we have been experiencing the impact of body language right from our childhood. As an infant, when we did not know how to speak, people tried to understand what we wished to say with the help of our little cries and gurgles, looking at our gestures and peering into the face. This process of communicating through body language keeps on going as we grow older and older.
People View You By Your Body Language
Whether you realize it or not, body language is a big factor responsible for how the people form their opinion about you. When dating, your listening skill is essential and very important for making good relationships.
Body Language Constantly Speaks For You
Do you realize that your body language speaks for you when you are not saying anything to the other person? What does this mean? It clearly indicates that whether or not you are speaking, the other person is constantly getting the message regarding what you are thinking and what you are feeling inside. If somebody is able to stop this constant transfer of feelings and thought-taking through body language, then he must have mastered the art of disguise.