Not only does a woman's body language speak louder than her words, but so does yours. It's okay if you're (by nature) the kind of guy who's shy. But, unfortunately, that doesn't translate well in the dating scene.
In the world of dating, as everywhere else, confidence is everything. Your confident (not cocky or arrogant) attitude will be key in attracting dates and meeting people. If you feel like you have little self-confidence or issues with self-esteem, you’re probably shaking your head right now and thinking that if confidence is what’s going to make or break your dating life, then you’re already in trouble.
There are a zillion articles on how to impress a girl as well as many books on the subject. But how, really, do you get her attention, keep her attention, and make her come back for more of the wonderful you? Do you follow the men’s versions of The Rules, that say you wait x number of times, you avoid a, b, c, and you be sure to always do d, e, and f? Do you follow the special advice on how to impress a girl who is hot or who is rich? Do you go with the psychology of genders, and follow the generalizations that all girls want Brad Pitt, all girls are on diets, and all girls love to shop?