In the world of dating, as everywhere else, confidence is everything. Your confident (not cocky or arrogant) attitude will be key in attracting dates and meeting people. If you feel like you have little self-confidence or issues with self-esteem, you’re probably shaking your head right now and thinking that if confidence is what’s going to make or break your dating life, then you’re already in trouble.
Have you come across a person who is so naturally friendly that when you put him inside a room of strangers, he'll be friends with almost everyone in no time? We call such a people-person, someone unbelievably nice and charismatic that he can charm anyone into doing anything.
"Two men look out through the same bars: One sees the mud, and one sees the stars."- Frederick Langbridge, A Cluster of Quiet Thoughts
If you’ve placed second in a writing contest, will you jump for joy and push for better results the next time or will you be discouraged and find an excuse not to join again?
When it’s time to strike up a conversation with a woman, some guys (maybe you), get shy and tongue-tied, only to end up frustrated and angry at themselves for not knowing what to say or how to say it.
For many men in their 40s and beyond, finding a new lease of “love life” feels very much like going back to their teenage years. Most feel uncomfortable and almost clueless. Many mature men ask, “Where do you start when it feels as though you’ve been out of the dating arena so long that you can’t remember the rules?” Because many mature men find it awkward to date again, many are on the lookout for tips and dating advice for men over 40 that can help them venture successfully into the dating jungle once again.
You may be a nice guy, but are you the type she’ll take home to meet dear old mom and dad? If you want to know for sure that you are, check out the list we’ve put together of requirements for being a good candidate for meeting the parents:
I am going to ask you to something very weird right now. First of all, I want you to listen to your thoughts. Now tell me, what thoughts fill your head? Would you label them as positive, or negative?
Did you know that having more fun actually makes you a more fun person? Don’t get so caught up in wanting a girlfriend that you forget to do the things you enjoy. Keeping up with your interests and hobbies, and creating new ones, is a great way to relax, stay happy, and become a more interesting, fun person.
Your dad was a lucky guy. He met mom in high school, maybe college, fell in love and the rest is history. That’s a beautiful thing when it happens, but these days, it’s not so much like that. We graduate from school and everyone scatters across the globe.
Men of all ages and from all backgrounds have said that the hardest part about dating is getting over the first hurdle: asking. They get tongue tied and become shy. No one likes to put himself out there and risk rejection-it’s not fun, but there are ways you can lower your risk of rejection by how you ask for a date.
For men, pursuit is part of the fun of dating and pairing up. That’s the reason men love games. You get to hunt things and conquer worlds and creatures. Great. But leave the gaming in your den or out in the wilderness.
In order to get the attention of girls, the number one factor is to be confident. This quality is not easy to project and at times you might think that you have confidence but you may end up losing your cool or acting cocky. Girls are attracted by confident men as this makes them to feel secure. Confidence is also a sign of a man who is reliable and can be trusted. Confidence is a trait which is difficult to obtain. However, if you have this quality, beautiful women would surely be attracted to you.