Dating isn’t as difficult as some people make it. No, you don’t have an extra advantage if you are rich, or possess magical skills. There are a few things that can help you get a date but it’s not rocket science. You have to be confident, and not try foolish ideas.
Here are a few things that may help you get a date:
Don’t come across as needy; just be confident: I don’t know of a girl who goes out with a man who comes across as an attention-seeker. Avoid that, as much as you can. Have confidence in yourself, and most importantly, respect for yourself.
How to move to the next step then? How to get them to talk Just go ahead and talk to them-unless they are rude, you will get a few minutes of their time. You may be a little shaky but that’s fine as long as you can get over the initial rustiness.
You also have to be a good listener, especially when talking to a woman. If you keep on blabbering yourself, you just won’t have a long conversation.
Know what you are going to talk about: While I don’t think that a dialogue can be planned in advance, it’s always better to have a general idea of what you want to say. This will help you calm your nerves and be confident. The plan doesn’t refer to practicing a few pick up lines, by the way. That would be catastrophic.
You also have to know when a conversation moves from the casual ‘How’s it going?’ to something more substantial. As time progresses, your instincts will get better though.
Rejections are fine: You will get rejected, maybe a lot of times. That shouldn’t waver your confidence though. Many times, a girl doesn’t want a stable relationship, or is simply not interested.
What should you do in that case? Move on. There’s nothing personal, and absolutely no need to fret over it. Move on.
Keep it simple: Getting a date is simple. You have to know the basics, and do them right, and know when to take the conversation to the next level.
Don’t make it complicated for yourself. The basics are simple, and it’s best if you can keep them simple.
That’s it then-that’s the dating advice for men. You may also look into the online data paradigm if you are interested in that kind of a thing. It can help you get started but in the end, the relationship takes shape offline.