{"id":1008,"date":"2017-11-02T13:04:47","date_gmt":"2017-11-02T18:04:47","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/?p=1008"},"modified":"2017-11-02T13:04:47","modified_gmt":"2017-11-02T18:04:47","slug":"what-to-say","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/1008\/what-to-say\/","title":{"rendered":"What to Say"},"content":{"rendered":"

You can tell she\u2019s interested in you. You feel \u2013 or at least look \u2013 relaxed and confident. You walk up to her, say hello, and \u2013 then what? If she\u2019s very interested in you, it won\u2019t really matter what you say.<\/p>\n

You could tell her she looks like she\u2019s been hit with a pretty stick or ask her if it hurt when she fell out of heaven, and she\u2019ll think it\u2019s cute. But, if she\u2019s still debating whether or not she\u2019d actually go out with you, cheesy pickup lines will turn her off.<\/p>\n

So what should you say that won\u2019t make you sound like a creep or an idiot?<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"prettyThere\u2019s always honesty. You can say you noticed her as soon as you walked in and wanted to talk to her, or that as soon as you saw her you knew that you wanted to meet her.<\/p>\n

Just don\u2019t take honesty too far. If you\u2019ve been fantasizing about her for the last thirty minutes, she doesn\u2019t need to know that. If plain honesty leads you to a dead end, you can try saying something neutral.<\/p>\n

You can comment on how crowded (or not) the place where you meet is, or about the food or drinks served, or even about gas prices or the weather, if the weather is actually doing something interesting (like an incoming blizzard).<\/p>\n

You might also give her a compliment. Beautiful women are used to compliments, though, so use them with care. Just blurting out that she\u2019s beautiful doesn\u2019t tell her anything new.<\/p>\n

Try to mention something she might not have heard before that isn\u2019t directly related to beauty. You want to notice something deeper than the obvious about her, so that she\u2019ll also want to notice something deeper about you.<\/p>\n

Ten compliments she probably hasn\u2019t heard before:<\/p>\n

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  1. \n

    You\u2019re very graceful.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  2. \n

    Your face is very expressive.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  3. \n

    I can see you have excellent taste.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  4. \n

    You have an irresistible smile<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  5. \n

    Your voice is very attractive.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  6. \n

    Your hands are so delicate.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  7. \n

    You\u2019re very honest. I respect that.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  8. \n

    You\u2019re the most interesting person I\u2019ve ever met.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n

  9. \n

    Meeting you has made my day.<\/p>\n<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n

    When she doesn\u2019t feel pressured to go out with you, she\u2019s much more likely to choose to go out with you. And when she feels that you\u2019re paying attention to her as a person rather than focusing on her looks, she\u2019s more likely to want to get to know you as well.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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