No one, not even the savviest, best looking guy on the planet gets every date he wants and has a 100% dating success record. You\u2019re going to strike out once in awhile. Someone you really like might turn you down for a date, or you might have a date that doesn\u2019t pan out well. <\/p>\n
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What are you going to do? Here\u2019s the first thing you\u2019re not going to do \u2013 complain. So it didn\u2019t turn out well, or she said, \u201cno\u201d when you asked her out. Get over it and move on. Not every girl is going to like you or want to date you and you are going to have bad dates. <\/p>\n
Understand that things don\u2019t always go as planned, but we get another chance tomorrow. Yes, it\u2019s disappointing, but it\u2019s reality, so prepare yourself for it and buck up. The second thing you can\u2019t do is give up. <\/p>\n
Dating is tough and not for the faint of heart. If you ask someone out and she says, \u201cno,\u201d don\u2019t take it personally. She might have reasons other than the awful ones you\u2019re already assuming. <\/p>\n
She might already have a boyfriend, she might be taking a break from dating, or she might be in the middle of a family crisis that\u2019s taking up all of her time and energy. Just don\u2019t take a \u201cno\u201d personally because most times it has nothing to do with you.<\/p>\n
The third thing is something you should do. You should take time to give some thought to whether or not it might be you. If you asked a woman out and she said, \u201cno,\u201d it\u2019s no big deal. <\/p>\n
But if you\u2019ve asked several women out and gotten negative responses from all of them, you need to analyze your approach. Just make sure that you\u2019re not being obnoxious or desperate because you won\u2019t get many dates that way. <\/p>\n
If you\u2019ve had a date and things just didn\u2019t go well, you can spend a bit of time analyzing what went wrong \u2013 again, it may not be you at all! Maybe you found out that you two really don\u2019t have all that much in common. <\/p>\n
Or maybe she picked food out of her teeth with her fingernails, or maybe you droned on and on about your last crappy relationship. Just try to see what might have happened and if you can identify problems with your own behavior, take steps to correct them before you go out with a different woman.<\/p>\n
Striking out is part of the game, so you have to take it with a grain of salt. You\u2019re not going to be successful 100% of the time. View \u201cfailures\u201d as opportunities to learn something about yourself.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"