You had a fabulous time on the first date. He was so easy to talk to that you felt like you had known him for years. He seemed to have your same tastes in food and movies. You were amazed at how well you got along and look forward to the next date.<\/p>\n
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If you\u2019re honest, you felt such a connection to him that you told your best friend that you may have found your Mr. Right. Then the next day passes and no phone call. After a week, you stop checking voice mail, email or making excuses for him and accept that he\u2019s not going to call you.<\/p>\n
How do you handle the rejection? You could head for the ice cream shop and drown your sorrows in scoops of rich ice cream with cookies and sprinkles on top. Hanging around the house in an old bathrobe crying is another way to deal with the hurt you feel.<\/p>\n
Drinking alcohol, driving too fast or getting angry and trash talking about him are other destructive ways to cope with your sadness. So far that\u2019s a look at how you might act in private or with friends, but eventually you might run into him again.<\/p>\n
If you work in the same company or even within the same industry, chances are you\u2019ll see him again. If you met him through friends, then you can count on landing in the same social setting before long.<\/p>\n
How you handle yourself in that situation is going to be seen by others, so you need to think it over before it happens to avoid making a fool of yourself over a guy who doesn\u2019t deserve your attention.<\/p>\n
Maybe you\u2019ve imagined how you might \u201ctell him off\u201d – but is that what you really need to do? First of all, if he didn\u2019t care enough about you to call after the date as he said he would, then he simply doesn\u2019t care what you think.<\/p>\n