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\"coupleSometimes formally asking for a date seems sort of weird, even though you want to go out with her. It just seems like you\u2019re back in school to have to walk up to a woman you like and say, \u201cWould you like to go on a date with me?\u201d<\/p>\n

It\u2019s pretty stiff and seems old fashioned. A more comfortable approach can be to invite her to join you for an activity that you already have planned for yourself (even if you haven\u2019t really planned it for yourself). Here\u2019s how:<\/p>\n

The first step is to have an idea of what interests you and she have in common. If you have things in common that you enjoy, for example hiking, the next time you plan a hiking daytrip, you can invite her along.<\/p>\n

Make the invitation very casual by first talking about the outing and making it sound exciting. Then lead into a spiel where she can \u201cjoin you if she wants\u201d – she will feel a lot more comfortable and less pressured that it\u2019s a date.<\/p>\n

This tactic works well because you\u2019re implying that you know she\u2019s going to enjoy doing whatever it is with you. Frame the invitation so that you sound enthusiastic and like you know you\u2019re both going to have fun and that it will be a great way for you to pass some time together.<\/p>\n

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Maybe you know her from a book club. You could let her know when an author is going to be in town for a reading and you could suggest you go together. Put it like this, \u201cI just heard that Stephen King is going to be doing a reading at Barnes and Noble! I got tickets, so why don\u2019t you come along?\u201d How can she resist an invitation like that?<\/p>\n

The premise of asking her to something you\u2019re already going to can apply to just about anything. If you\u2019re going to a party at the opening of a new club or if you\u2019re going to the tattoo convention and you know you\u2019re both into tattoos, just tell her that it\u2019s coming up, looks like there will be a lot of interesting people and things to see and invite her to come, too.<\/p>\n

When you ask a girl out for this kind of date, you\u2019re really doing yourself a favor because she won\u2019t feel the pressure of a sometimes awkward dinner and movie type of date. She knows you are going to be having a good time and that the two of you will be able to enjoy something that you have in common.<\/p>\n

This is a great way to get to know each other better and if it goes well, you can always extend the \u201cdate\u201d by going for a bite to eat afterwards. If you don\u2019t get out much and don\u2019t have a lot of things lined up for yourself to invite her to, you\u2019ll need to add some activities to your list.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t be lazy \u2013 dating and getting dates isn\u2019t for lazy people and you need to put forth effort. Make sure your list has activities you actually like, because you need to be authentic from the beginning. When you approach dating this way, it becomes easier and much less pressure-filled for you both.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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