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\"onlineOK. You have joined a couple of dating services and written a killer profile. You\u2019ve uploaded a good picture and now you are going to chat with a contact. What now?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

How do you start separating those who have real potential and those who don\u2019t have any potential at all? You need to find out something about who this strange woman really is and not just who she wants you to believe she is. It would be nice if women wore labels like \u201cGold Digger\u201d or \u201cDaddy\u2019s girl\u201d\u2026.but they don\u2019t so it\u2019s up to you to find these things out and you can\u2019t just ask direct questions. You need to know what mistakes you can avoid making and how to impress this lady if you decide you want to do that.<\/p>\n

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After you are past the initial small talk, ask her, \u201cWhat are the biggest mistakes guys make when dating online?\u201d<\/strong> Listen carefully to her answers. She\u2019s going to tell you a lot about herself and her views on men in general.<\/p>\n

Next you should ask her, \u201cWhat do you really think about online dating?\u201d<\/strong> Now she will tell you if she has had any bad experiences dating online and help you to avoid making the same things wrong.<\/p>\n

Now for the all-important one\u2026 \u201dWhat caused the break up in your last relationship?\u201d<\/strong> If she puts all the blame on the guy, you should probably move on to the next prospect. If she takes all the blame herself, you should probably do the same. If she says the breakup was by mutual consent or that the relationship just wasn\u2019t right for either of them, you\u2019ve heard the right answer. Move forward but always with caution.<\/p>\n

Asking the right questions will give you insight and make you more confident when you meet the lady for the first time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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