{"id":428,"date":"2022-06-06T12:30:18","date_gmt":"2022-06-06T17:30:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/?p=428"},"modified":"2022-05-31T17:02:04","modified_gmt":"2022-05-31T22:02:04","slug":"finding-the-perfect-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/428\/finding-the-perfect-woman\/","title":{"rendered":"Finding The Perfect Woman"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-size: 18pt;\">What\u2019s your idea of a perfect woman?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>Is she tall, short? Slender, curvy? Blonde, brunette? Financially stable? Own a home? Come from a Christian background? If you have any preconceived notions of what a perfect woman should be, forget them.<\/p>\n<p>If you have a mental list of qualities a woman should have, forget those too. Why? You could be closing the door on the right woman to date if you go into dating with your ideals of what the woman should or shouldn\u2019t be rather than God\u2019s ideal.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-429\" src=\"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2015\/05\/guy-and-two-girls.jpg\" alt=\"guy-and-two-girls\" width=\"300\" height=\"253\" \/>There were two Christian men. One man had a list of what he wanted in any woman he dated. She had to be tall. Had to be a brunette. Had to come from a Christian family. He kept searching until he was in his thirties and he found the perfect woman.<\/p>\n<p>They dated and married a few years later. He\u2019d finally found the perfection he\u2019d searched for. Ten years later, they divorced. His wife discovered he wasn\u2019t perfect.<\/p>\n<p>The second man sought God\u2019s wisdom before he dated. The woman he was led to was short, a bit overweight. She didn\u2019t come from a Christian family but she loved the Lord with all her heart.<\/p>\n<p>They dated for years, then married. Twenty-one years later, they\u2019re still together, still serving God. So forget looking for perfection and instead seek God\u2019s will about the woman you should ask out.<\/p>\n<p>About serial dating: Don\u2019t date more than one woman at a time. Hard to believe this advice pertains to Christian men, but it does. You cannot date more than one woman at the same time and get to know both of their characters equally. It\u2019s not fair to either party involved in the date. You can\u2019t commit yourself to two women at once. Plus, serial dating makes you come across as a player.<\/p>\n<p>Pay attention to how the woman conducts herself before you ask her out. Don\u2019t assume that because she\u2019s busy and active in the church or church related activities it means she has a steady relationship with God. You don\u2019t want to date a woman that\u2019s so busy doing she has no time for simply being. It\u2019s easy to fill a life with everything but time for God. There has to be a healthy balance.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>What\u2019s your idea of a perfect woman? Is she tall, short? Slender, curvy? Blonde, brunette? Financially stable? Own a home? Come from a Christian background? If you have any preconceived notions of what a perfect woman should be, forget them. If you have a mental list of qualities a woman should have, forget those too. Why? You could be closing the door on the right woman to date if you go into dating with your ideals of what the woman <span class=\"excerpt-dots\">&hellip;<\/span> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/428\/finding-the-perfect-woman\/\"><span class=\"more-msg\">Continue reading &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":429,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false},"categories":[15],"tags":[18,51,56,17,55],"class_list":["post-428","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice","tag-dating","tag-dating-tips-for-men","tag-serial-dating","tag-singles","tag-the-perfect-woman"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.7 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Finding The Perfect Woman - Christian Singles<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/428\/finding-the-perfect-woman\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Finding The Perfect Woman - Christian Singles\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"What\u2019s your idea of a perfect woman? 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