{"id":851,"date":"2017-05-17T12:36:10","date_gmt":"2017-05-17T18:36:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/?p=851"},"modified":"2017-04-17T12:44:22","modified_gmt":"2017-04-17T18:44:22","slug":"what-do-you-want-in-a-date","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/851\/what-do-you-want-in-a-date\/","title":{"rendered":"What Do You Want in a Date?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The first step to getting a great girlfriend is deciding exactly what kind of woman would be right for you. You don\u2019t want to settle for a woman who isn\u2019t someone you like being around for more than just a little while. <\/p>\n<p>The point of getting a girlfriend is to have someone to have more fun with. If you get into a relationship and end up miserable, you\u2019re doing something wrong. So first, decide exactly what you want. That\u2019s the only way you\u2019ll stand a chance at getting it.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" src=\"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/couple6.jpg\" alt=\"couple\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-852\" \/>How do you want to date? Do you want fun, casual, short-term relationships with several women at once? Would you rather have one girlfriend who you really have fun with and respect? Do you want to date a few women casually at first and see if you\u2019d like to get more serious later? <\/p>\n<p>Who do you want to date? A friendly, down-to-earth girl-next-door? Someone outgoing and adventurous? An elegant and sophisticated woman? A quiet and reserved type who saves most of her attention for you? Or again, several different women so that you can see who you enjoy being around the most?<\/p>\n<p>What are you going to do together? Do you want someone to go with to all the local clubs? Would you rather have a girlfriend who sits on the sidelines and cheers for you, or one who will jump right in the game? <\/p>\n<p>How about a girlfriend who enjoys a sport or hobby you\u2019ve never tried? It\u2019s a good idea to start working this out now, before you meet her and before she announces that she\u2019s bored with dinner and a movie every time you go out. <\/p>\n<p>Right now, you might think that physical attraction is all that a relationship needs, and you\u2019d be right \u2013 for the first date, maybe. But eventually, if you haven\u2019t thought through what you want to give and receive in your relationship, your girlfriend will get on your nerves until you have to break it off. <\/p>\n<p>But if you start off your relationship right, you\u2019ll be much more likely to get a great girlfriend who you\u2019ll never want to leave.  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