{"id":877,"date":"2017-09-30T13:00:54","date_gmt":"2017-09-30T19:00:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/?p=877"},"modified":"2017-04-18T13:12:10","modified_gmt":"2017-04-18T19:12:10","slug":"get-prepared-guys","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/877\/get-prepared-guys\/","title":{"rendered":"Get Prepared Guys"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Before you start going out and meeting women, you need to be prepared. It\u2019s important to make a good first impression, and that isn\u2019t easy when you aren\u2019t ready. You need to know what you\u2019ve been doing that\u2019s hurt your chances in the past, what you can start doing to make yourself more attractive, and how to tell if a woman is interested in you.<\/p>\n<p>You need to learn what women want, how to become more interesting and fun, how to stand apart from other men (in a good way), and some of the best and worst ways to approach women.<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft size-full wp-image-879\" src=\"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/09\/couple7.jpg\" alt=\"couple\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" \/>Once you\u2019ve decided what kind of woman you want and what kind of relationship you want to have with her, it\u2019s time to figure out what your contribution will be. What are your best, most attractive features? What do you have to offer a woman? What is a woman going to find valuable about you? The answers may surprise you.<\/p>\n<p>Next, you\u2019ll want to enhance your best features and diminish your faults. You can break bad habits and replace them with better ones, take better care of yourself, and become more confident.<\/p>\n<p>These things aren\u2019t just for the benefit of the women you\u2019ll meet \u2013 all this is going to help you become a happier, healthier version of yourself. No matter what happens, you win. It\u2019s also important to be able to bounce back and move on if a woman isn\u2019t interested or if you decide to break up.<\/p>\n<p>The key to being able to come back and try again with someone else is to expect that you might not get the first girl that you ask, but you will get someone. You can\u2019t take rejection personally. It may only mean that you need more practice or that you haven\u2019t met the best person for you yet.<\/p>\n<p>You also need to know the rules of dating. Not the \u201ccall her only after X number of days\u201d kind, but the rules about what you can and can\u2019t reasonably expect, and how to treat each other in a way that will make your relationship run more smoothly.<\/p>\n<p>Every relationship is built on the idea of give-and-take. If you want your girlfriend to see you exclusively, you\u2019ll have to see her exclusively. If you want your girlfriend to join you rock-climbing, you\u2019ll have to be willing to join her running a race\u2026 or whatever else she loves to do.<\/p>\n<p>You can\u2019t expect her to drop everything and devote herself entirely to you, and she can\u2019t expect it of you. 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