{"id":921,"date":"2019-09-08T16:55:46","date_gmt":"2019-09-08T21:55:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/?p=921"},"modified":"2024-09-02T15:55:56","modified_gmt":"2024-09-02T20:55:56","slug":"flirting-without-sending-wrong-message","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/921\/flirting-without-sending-wrong-message\/","title":{"rendered":"Flirting Without Sending the Wrong Message"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>The fine art of flirting is to catch a man\u2019s eye without giving him the wrong impression. That can be a challenge. Watch some old movies like Gone With the Wind. Scarlett O\u2019Hara was a champion flirter.<\/p>\n<p>She gave the guys just enough attention to captivate them but never gave away samples. That\u2019s the kind of flirting that gets you much more than the \u201cvoulez vous coucher avec moi, ce soir\u201d type.<\/p>\n<p><strong><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignright size-full wp-image-922\" src=\"http:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/06\/flirting.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"240\" height=\"300\" \/>The first rule of flirting involves making eye contact.<\/strong> In North American culture, woman can lock eyes with a man without being considered rude or slutty. Even then, it\u2019s a matter of catching his eye rather than locking on like a tractor beam where he feels uncomfortable.<\/p>\n<p>Accomplished flirters only make eye contact for a few seconds and act is if it was an accident. It\u2019s a matter of perfecting the look that communicates, \u201cI was actually looking for someone else, but you stepped into my line of vision.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>The second rule of flirting is to seem unconcerned about his response.<\/strong> If he read the signal and approaches, fine. If he doesn\u2019t get it the first time, don\u2019t give an instant replay. You might even act surprised that he thought you were interested in him.<\/p>\n<p>Of course since he came over, you\u2019re willing to look him over up close. But don\u2019t appear obvious or desperate, either of which spoils the connection. <strong>The third rule of flirting is to wait for him to make the next move.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Don\u2019t keep pouring it on unless you\u2019re just trying to negotiate a price. That\u2019s what it seems like when you\u2019re flirting like a guided missile that\u2019s honing in on a target. Let him be the pursuer &#8211; it\u2019s a role he likes.<\/p>\n<p>Guys are willing to take the easy girl, but they don\u2019t tend to come back for more. Let him work at getting your attention. <strong>The fourth rule of flirting is to be natural.<\/strong> Once you have his attention, be yourself.<\/p>\n<p>You don\u2019t have to memorize Scarlett O\u2019Hara\u2019s lines to make this work. The flirting was merely to telegraph that you might be interested to see if he\u2019s worth the effort. You can\u2019t keep up an act for long. If it\u2019s the act he wants, then he won\u2019t stay around when you finally reveal yourself. Why waste time for both of you?<\/p>\n<p><strong>The final rule of flirting is to enjoy yourself.<\/strong> It\u2019s certainly among your inalienable rights as a female to flirt. Just remember that as with fishing, flirting can be a pleasant sport &#8211; even if you don\u2019t catch anything or if you have to throw back what you caught.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-size: 14pt;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Flirting-Dummies-Elizabeth-Clark\/dp\/0470742593?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1675191783&amp;sr=8-3&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=jeremiahproject&amp;linkId=2cbe679609f98ce8cedd3ac74d406192&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-2761\" src=\"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/flirting2-199x300.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"111\" height=\"167\" srcset=\"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/flirting2-199x300.jpg 199w, https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/flirting2-678x1024.jpg 678w, https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/flirting2-768x1160.jpg 768w, https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/flirting2.jpg 993w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 111px) 100vw, 111px\" \/><\/a><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" style=\"border: none !important; margin: 0px !important;\" src=\"https:\/\/ir-na.amazon-adsystem.com\/e\/ir?t=jeremiahproject&amp;language=en_US&amp;l=li2&amp;o=1&amp;a=0470742593\" alt=\"\" width=\"1\" height=\"1\" border=\"0\" \/>This easy-to-follow manual to mastering the art of flirting offers indispensable advice on working the dating scene and reinvigorating your love life. Exploring key areas including listening and communication skills, body language and self-image, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Flirting-Dummies-Elizabeth-Clark\/dp\/0470742593?_encoding=UTF8&amp;qid=1675191783&amp;sr=8-3&amp;linkCode=ll1&amp;tag=jeremiahproject&amp;linkId=2cbe679609f98ce8cedd3ac74d406192&amp;language=en_US&amp;ref_=as_li_ss_tl\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><strong>Flirting For Dummies<\/strong><\/a> provides readers with all the tools they need to boost their self-confidence and engage with people in a natural and charming way.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The fine art of flirting is to catch a man\u2019s eye without giving him the wrong impression. That can be a challenge. Watch some old movies like Gone With the Wind. Scarlett O\u2019Hara was a champion flirter. She gave the guys just enough attention to captivate them but never gave away samples. That\u2019s the kind of flirting that gets you much more than the \u201cvoulez vous coucher avec moi, ce soir\u201d type. The first rule of flirting involves making eye <span class=\"excerpt-dots\">&hellip;<\/span> <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/921\/flirting-without-sending-wrong-message\/\"><span class=\"more-msg\">Continue reading &rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":922,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":true,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2}},"categories":[15],"tags":[93,141],"class_list":["post-921","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-dating-advice","tag-dating-tips-for-women","tag-flirting"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v27.3 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/product\/yoast-seo-wordpress\/ -->\n<title>Flirting Without Sending the Wrong Message - Christian Singles<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/christian.bestsingledating.com\/index.php\/dating-advice\/921\/flirting-without-sending-wrong-message\/\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Flirting Without Sending the Wrong Message - Christian Singles\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"The fine art of flirting is to catch a man\u2019s eye without giving him the wrong impression. 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