Whether you are just beginning your love life or are back in the saddle after years of relationships, learning how to speak to girls with confidence is a really important personality trait. It will enable you to have better relationships, as well as improve your life by building your social circle.
For the best results, try to incorporate this information in your daily life. The best part is, you can start doing it to strengthen your relationships with women right after you read this!
First, when you are trying to speak to a woman, it’s important that you convey the right personality traits. This is especially true if you are looking for a romantic relationship. One of the most important things that women look for when they are speaking to a man is whether or not the man has confidence. this includes both confidence in themselves, as well as what they are saying.
The number one thing that most guys do wrong when they are first finding out how to speak to a girls is that they lie. This could be about your job, where you are from…pretty much anything. The reason that people do this is because they want to show their best selves to whoever it is they are speaking to, but let me tell you that you are shooting yourself in the foot if you do this right out of the gate.
This is because most women are very good at gauging people’s emotional responses. Remember how all the boys used to play tag on the playground while the girls sat in the corner talking to each other? Well, turns out that those years of “just talking” have given the girls much more emotional acuity than most boys will ever have.
Therefore, you should always be pretty truthful when you are learning how to speak to girls, because most will know when you are full of it and when you are not. This does not mean that you can’t flirt and tell funny little jokes, however, which is actually really effective when learning how to speak to girls.
For example, if a girl asks what you do for a living, tell her that you tame lions for a living or some other similar nonsense. Not only will she find it pretty amusing, but she probably won’t even press you to find out what you actually do. If you divert her attention long enough and win her over, in the end it won’t even matter what you do for a living, what kind of car you drive, or any other disqualifying types of information that would normally turn her off.
Also, when you are trying to discover how to speak to girls, it doesn’t necessarily have to be a bad thing that you downplay. When the woman finds out a positive trait about you without you telling her, it can be worth a lot more than if you said it outright (which might also be construed as bragging or being arrogant). Try to keep things to yourself for the most amount of time, and instead ask her questions. It not only shows that you are interested, but also leaves you with a certain mystique that you can play on as the relationship builds and you learn how to speak to girls even better.
Article written by Derrik Anderson