You’re on your first date and even though you’ve looked forward to this, and planned for it, you’re worried about making conversation and what to do when you run into one of those inevitable lulls. Maybe you’re not worried at all because you consider yourself to be an expert conversationalist – a real talker. Either way, you need some pointers, just to make sure you keep the conversation going, keep it interesting and make it fun for both of you. … Continue reading →
Sure, there are plenty of first dating advice and tips for singles out there. Unfortunately, the importance of good conversation is usually overlooked. Understanding the importance of conversation on a first date is crucial for its success. When you are an incredibly dull person to talk to, you will also lead a terrifically boring love life, as no one would want to hang out with you again. Potential partners will refuse to have dinner with you for the second time … Continue reading →
Dating is about two people spending time together and hopefully, starting a relationship based on a physical, mental and emotional interaction that will lead to other things. The only way for two people to get started in getting to know each other and taking their relationship to a higher level is through conversation. First dates are tough since the two people know little about each other and just getting a conversation started, leave alone keeping it alive, can be very … Continue reading →
Conversation is an art. It’s especially important when you’re trying to get to know a date and impress her. Some people can make conversation very easily and others aren’t quite as skilled for various reasons. Everyone can learn to be a good conversationalist, though. The key is to know a few tricks, employ them, and let the conversation propel itself. Know what’s going on in the world. You don’t have to be an expert at everything, but you should be … Continue reading →
I’m sure you want your date to have fun and you want to have fun, too! You want to ensure that the conversation is interesting and stimulating to both of you. Body language always speaks first in any conversation. When you are confident your body relaxes, becomes more open, you lean in, you smile, and you become more animated. When you are tense or not at ease with yourself, you will be sitting back, crossing your legs, maybe your arms, … Continue reading →
Sometimes it’s hard to get past the beginning of a conversation. You’ve approached her, given her a nice, sincere compliment or introduced yourself. But then what? How do you get past the polite introductions and on to a conversation that might lead to a date, or at least making a new friend? The key to moving your conversation past hello is to get her to talk. Think about the five Ws, which are: Who, What, When, Where and Why. There’s … Continue reading →
Congrats! So you finally got some girls liking your online profile. You are getting a lot of messages. But hold on! Your job is not done yet. This is just the start. You need to proceed very carefully. You surely cannot afford to follow up on all the responses. Just browse through their profiles carefully and try to select the precious few. And once you have done that, you cannot hastily go ahead contacting all of them. This might send … Continue reading →
Whether you are just beginning your love life or are back in the saddle after years of relationships, learning how to speak to girls with confidence is a really important personality trait. It will enable you to have better relationships, as well as improve your life by building your social circle. For the best results, try to incorporate this information in your daily life. The best part is, you can start doing it to strengthen your relationships with women right … Continue reading →
Communication is such an important factor in all relationships, business and personal alike, that it should come as no surprise that we need to discuss it here as well. What is communication, after all? It is the two-way interaction that occurs, both verbally and non-verbally. What is said with actions is as important, if not more so, than what is said with words. But here we’re going to focus our attention on the importance of verbal communication and what it … Continue reading →
The date started out great. You talked about your work and his work. Then you shared some stories about mutual friends. He knows the names of your pets and you know about his car. Then comes the dreaded stall – that awkward moment when the conversation seems to have nowhere else to go. The salad is only going to last so long and then both of you have to say something. But what? Here are a few conversational kickstarts so … Continue reading →
You can tell she’s interested in you. You feel – or at least look – relaxed and confident. You walk up to her, say hello, and – then what? If she’s very interested in you, it won’t really matter what you say. You could tell her she looks like she’s been hit with a pretty stick or ask her if it hurt when she fell out of heaven, and she’ll think it’s cute. But, if she’s still debating whether or … Continue reading →
When it’s time to strike up a conversation with a woman, some guys (maybe you), get shy and tongue-tied, only to end up frustrated and angry at themselves for not knowing what to say or how to say it. Or maybe you just don’t want to say anything because you’ve gotten the brush off before and you assume it’s because of what you said. If this sounds like you, take heart. You don’t have to spend the rest of your … Continue reading →
The Blarney Stone is a historical stone, or actually part of the Blarney Castle in Ireland where it was believed that kissing the stone can grant you the gift of gab. Yeah, it seems strange in this day and age, but who are we to question tradition? It’s not like I’m saying that Santa Claus doesn’t exist (OOPS!). There is so much to know about conversation that anyone, even I, could ever realize. You can go though watching talk shows; … Continue reading →
Conversation is a great tool to get to know someone but what about those awkward moments of silence when you just can’t think of anything to say? That can kill a good date fast. If you experience moments of silence that seem to linger, use humor to deflect it. Be honest about the uncomfortable silence. Many people experience this first date issue. Ask her about herself-her childhood-where she grew up, her family, what hobbies she engaged in. Don’t make it … Continue reading →
