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Conversation Is The Key

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Dating is about two people spending time together and hopefully, starting a relationship based on a physical, mental and emotional interaction that will lead to other things. The only way for two people to get started in getting to know each other and taking their relationship to a higher level is through conversation. First dates are tough since the two people know little about each other and just getting a conversation started, leave alone keeping it alive, can be very … Continue reading →

What to Do If You’re Not a Good Conversationalist

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Conversation is an art. It’s especially important when you’re trying to get to know a date and impress her. Some people can make conversation very easily and others aren’t quite as skilled for various reasons.  Everyone can learn to be a good conversationalist, though. The key is to know a few tricks, employ them, and let the conversation propel itself. Know what’s going on in the world. You don’t have to be an expert at everything, but you should be … Continue reading →

When Should You Be Serious?

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There’s a time for humor and there’s a time to be serious when you’re trying to get the girl. Here’s something that you’ll want to remember. If it’s something serious to her, it should be something serious to you. If she laughs about her job, then it’s okay to be funny about that. But if her job is something that she’s worked hard to get and she’s proud of it and doesn’t say anything even remotely funny about it, then … Continue reading →

When Is Humor Right to Use?

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Humor is right to use when you’re really interested in the girl and feel that the interest is reciprocated. If you can make her laugh, it will increase the potential that the girl is going to fall for you. But you have to remember to be yourself. If you don’t have a sense of humor, it takes practice to not sound like you’re trying too hard. You want to be funny and witty, but not so witty that you end … Continue reading →

What Humor Is Appropriate?

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Using humor is a great way to break the ice and get to know someone, but you need to know how to use it. A sense of humor isn’t just one type of humor. A man can have different types of humor. There can be the type of humor that shows a man doesn’t let annoyances build up. He laughs more often than not and people enjoy being around him. Laughing together with the girl that you want to get … Continue reading →

Humor Helps You Get the Girl

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Dating isn’t easy when you first meet someone. You want to make a good impression, but those first few dates can sometimes be awkward. When you’re trying to talk to someone you don’t know, there can often be a lag in conversation as you try to figure out what to say. If you’ve ever been on one of those dates when it seemed like everything just kind of went south, there is something you can do to change that for … Continue reading →

The Physical Side of Dating

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As a Christian man, you are called to a higher standard of living than your non Christian peers. You want to be sure that your dating relationship is honorable. Is it wrong to hold hands? To kiss your date goodnight? That depends. Are you in a position where you can’t take intimacy any further than that? Without roadblocks, even the most moral of men can fail to keep his convictions. If you don’t avoid ways to cross certain boundaries, then … Continue reading →

Planning Your Date

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If you take your date through the drive thru at a fast food restaurant and splurge on a box of chicken nuggets, don’t expect a second date. There’s a huge difference in not having a large budget for dating and being cheap. What cheap says to a woman is not, “He’s good with money.” What it says is, “He doesn’t think I’m worth spending money on.” You can plan dates that show you’ve put thought into it without having to … Continue reading →

Keeping up Appearances

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You’ve heard the phrase ‘be on your best behavior’ and ‘put your best foot forward’ especially on a first date. You should make an extra effort on a first date but always be yourself. Never act like someone or something you’re not. There’s an old British show titled ‘Keeping Up Appearances.’ In this show, the main star is Hyacinth Bucket. She pronounces her last name as ‘Bouquet’ and loudly corrects anyone who pronounces it as Bucket. She’s embarrassed by her … Continue reading →

Prepare to Be Persistent

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The first woman you meet may be interested in you and immediately want to go out with you. Or, maybe not. You might have trouble finding anyone you’re interested in, or you might lose interest after introducing yourself. In any case, you’ll need to keep on getting out and meeting women until you find someone you hit it off with. Here are some scenarios where it might be better to move on and meet someone else:

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Finding The Perfect Woman

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What’s your idea of a perfect woman? Is she tall, short? Slender, curvy? Blonde, brunette? Financially stable? Own a home? Come from a Christian background? If you have any preconceived notions of what a perfect woman should be, forget them. If you have a mental list of qualities a woman should have, forget those too. Why? You could be closing the door on the right woman to date if you go into dating with your ideals of what the woman … Continue reading →

The Art of Asking for a Date

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Men of all ages and from all backgrounds have said that the hardest part about dating is getting over the first hurdle: asking. They get tongue tied and become shy. No one likes to put himself out there and risk rejection-it’s not fun, but there are ways you can lower your risk of rejection by how you ask for a date. There aren’t any tried and true ways to ask a woman out-no one way will guarantee you a date. … Continue reading →

Don’t Let Her See That Big Chip on Your Shoulder!

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You’re having a nice conversation with a nice girl. You want to impress her, right? Then here is one of the best pieces of advice you can get – do not, whatever you do, start whining about how you’re such a nice guy and women only want bad boys. That’s the kiss of death. There are a few reasons why you should never, ever add any comments like that to your conversation with a woman. First, it’s insulting to good … Continue reading →

A Christian Man’s Guide to Dating

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The word dating is powerful among men – a great equalizer, whether you’re a Christian or not. It can bring to mind moments of utmost joy and moments of searing rejection. Asking a woman out and getting a rejection hurts. On the other hand, getting an acceptance can make you feel like you’re on top of a mountain. From the mountaintop to the valley, dating without the proper guidance is like trying to climb Mt. Everest wearing only a pair … Continue reading →

The Christian Man’s Dating Experience Starts With Prayer

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You want to honor God with the choices you make in your life, especially the romantic choices. There can be long lasting consequences relating to dating outside of God’s desire for your life. When you think of a woman you’d like to ask out, first go before the Lord and talk to Him about it. Not only will prayer ensure a better outcome in the long run, but praying before you ask can keep you from trouble. Prayer acts as … Continue reading →