Humor is right to use when you’re really interested in the girl and feel that the interest is reciprocated. If you can make her laugh, it will increase the potential that the girl is going to fall for you.
But you have to remember to be yourself. If you don’t have a sense of humor, it takes practice to not sound like you’re trying too hard. You want to be funny and witty, but not so witty that you end up stuck in the friend zone.
Humor is right to use when you want to get the girl if you talk about something funny that you did that you didn’t mean to be funny.
When a man has a sense of humor and uses it in his dating life, it helps women relax around him, to feel like they, too, can be themselves. In turn, this lowers a woman’s guard and she’ll be more open to you, and more open to saying yes to more dates in the future.
Though you can use humor throughout the date, there are three specific times you’ll want to use humor.
You’ll want to use humor during the introduction.
This is because using humor will make you stand out in her mind. But remember that a pickup line usually comes across as a pickup line even if you try to make it funny.
Humor is something entirely different. Don’t look at it as being about you if the thought of using humor makes you nervous. Look at it as being about her. You’re trying to break the ice and put her at ease.
Keep in mind that while you’re using the humor, you don’t want her to see you as friends only. Make sure that she knows you’re flirting, not just entertaining her from the get go so that you establish the boundaries of where you want the date to go.
You’ll want to use humor when talking about yourself as far as what you’ve accomplished in life.
This is because too many men brag so much about themselves that they come across as arrogant. No woman wants to date a guy who’s full of himself. So use humor to your advantage. If you have a long list of accomplishments, there’s nothing wrong with sharing that, but to keep from sounding like you’re arrogant, add something funny.
Say something like, “And I also save the world in my spare time” and she’ll know that you’re ambitious, yet funny. Two things that a woman really likes about a man.
Make sure you use humor at the close of the date.
Too many men find that a date turns awkward at the end. They don’t know whether to lean in for a kiss or if it’s too soon. It can be hard to read a woman’s body language. This is where humor can help you.
You can say something funny. Something along the lines of being a guy can be tough. You never know whether to go in for a goodnight kiss or not and instead, kick yourself all way the way home because you didn’t even try, but with humor.
Women appreciate a guy who can navigate the awkward parts of a date transition smoothly. Those are the guys that always get the second date.