Practically fifty percent of U.S. working people have taken a cue from (The Office) coworkers Jim and Pam.
In an annual career building study of about 4,000 employees, 40% claim they’ve dated a person they worked alongside. Of those 65 percent in an office relationship, said they haven’t been keeping it a secret.
People are more open these days because the office romance has much less of a stigma. Almost everybody’s doing it, and so pretending that there’s something terrible about it is ridiculous. Many people are finding that out for themselves.
It seems sensible: when you consider that cute girl in the cubicle nearby is smart, on your schedule, and you already have the same interest. Yet a handful of incidents and the situation might quickly turn hazardous. So just what are the Do”s and Don’ts with dating someone openly and successfully:
Make sure you do follow your gut feelings when it comes to the boss
A few practices do not bat an eye of rumors when 2 workers are going out, however if you believe you have to say something, you’re probably right. The most mature of you should really take this on. However , if you’re both on the same grade, pick the person who has been there longer. Confront your manager and say something similar to, “Hey, I simply wanted to give you a heads up that ( him / her name) and myself are in a relationship just in case you have to address this for some reason.”
Make sure you do leave the relationship at the back door
Everyone knows you are in a relationship, so awkwardly steering clear of each other is not the right way to go, yet that doesn’t mean you must live out your love affair on the job. Stay away from any hints of intimacy or special favour. Similarly, don’t glare at each other across the conference table following a big argument. Treat each other as welcoming professionals.
Make sure you do not take advantage of company e-mail
It’s the company’s property. That means you could end up having your whole romance published for JR to view if something goes badly. Even for innocent exchanges, use only private e-mail accounts.
Make sure you don’t go after the friend
Should you break up, do not go after her work companion. It will never end well, and that’s certainly not something you need to address on a daily basis.
Not every workplace infatuation needs to develop into an office romance. Often it is best left as Flirting (With Potential). But if you’re a man and looking for it, make sure to learn about being prepared for Risky relationships.
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